There is nothing more joyful and exciting than bringing home a new bundle of joy! A new baby can also bring changes to your family. This is especially true, if you have an older child.
These changes can be hard for older children to handle. Remember that they have been the only child at home for a long time. The good news is that you can help your older child adjust to the new addition to your family.
Prepare: Make sure that your child knows that there will be a new baby and make him a part of preparing for its arrival. Including him throughout the experience will make them feel involved and secure.
Talk about his role: It is important that you talk about the importance of being a big brother and the role he will have in his sibling’s life. This way you can involve him in childcare too.
Make time: Be sure to make time for your older child even after the new baby’s arrival. He will still need loads of cuddles and time with you.
Talk about feelings: It is also important for you to talk to your child about what he feels about his new sibling. Encourage him to express his feelings openly so that you can help him adjust.
Show gratitude: Always show your appreciation for your child’s efforts in trying to be a good big brother. This will make him feel special and a part of the new family dynamic.
Your child might be quite enthusiastic when they hear that he or she will have a sibling. But things might change when you bring your second child home. Your older child might have second thoughts. Depending on their temperament, you will notice various changes in their behavior.
In the case of highly-sensitive children, you need to tread carefully to not negatively impact your relationship with them. These children need more time to adapt to the changes.
With the arrival of a new sibling, your older child may go through a flurry of emotions. They may feel excitement, jealousy, or even embarrassment. It’s your duty to keep a proper balance between them so that there is less conflict and stable development.
